SEX vs. LOVE
Our sociaty is so sex fixated these days that it makes no room for love. Often when I've talked to people about this (most times guys) I ask; what if the girl don't want to have sex for a looong time, like a year or two, would you dump her. And the answer is often yes, sometimes no, but compared to the yes' it's nothing. This makes me kind of sad to know that we live in a world where people are more atracted to sexual desire than to love. What happened to the love stories, I know most people say those stories only exist in books and movies, but the inspiration for those stories must have come from somewhere. Ergo, real life stories.
And when I think of this I think of my view on this and I realise that I'm brainwashed just as everyone else. I used to believe in true love, real love, the one. But not really anymore. There are no perfect marriage, noone stays together anymore. The coupples I used to look up to are no longer coupples and the love is just gone.
What do we do to fix this? Make love more attractive than sex, make working hard for it to win the love more attractive than sayin you look hot and get the easy girl from the club in bed. I realise I'm no better. I'm not longer as I used to be, and I don't really know why I suddently am so different. Is it just the time and all the oppinions that slowly has taken over me?
Something else that shocks me! Yeah, I might be a bit oldfashioned now, but it litteraly shocks me to see foourteen year old kids having sex with eachother. Their bodies are not even fully developed and when I think of me when I was fourteen, I was in the eight grade and I was just so childish. It was more important for me and my friends to get home and watch Fox Kids or play hide and seek. We didn't think about sex, or talk about it, nothing. The most pervert thing we ever saw was the boys childish drawings of peoples private parts. Haha. Ohh, the girls part was often just a circle with a line in the middle. Very graffic.
So I just find everything really sad, to have to find the world like this. Sex should be enjoyed by lovers, by friends, but choosing sex over love, that's where I draw my line.